GRWM: My 22nd Birthday Glam

Hey Babes!

I hope you all have been holding up during these crazy times. I definitely didn’t expect to be stuck in quarantine on my birthday, and it’s been a bit hard accepting that, but I decided instead of moping around wishing I had different plans, I would make use of this  “free time” and still get glammed up for my day.

If you haven’t figured it out yet, today is my 22nd birthday which is so crazy to me! I know 22 is not old by any means but the fact that I am clearly an adult now, is just frightening…you know?

Anyways, like I said above, I figured doing my makeup today would be the best way to get out of this mental rut quarantine has had me in, so if you’d like to see the details on this look right here, keep on scrolling or if you’d prefer to watch a video of this look I filmed it for my youtube channel that you can watch here(link)

 

For this look I’m going to be using my BH Cosmetics Ultimate Neutrals Palette

 Starting with this warm, orange toned shadow, (3rd shade in the second row) I’m just going to grab this with a fluffy brush and apply it to my crease as a transition shade.

 

 

 

 

 

Then, on another fluffy brush, I’m  grabbing this rustic  shade (fifth shade in the top row) and  I’m also going to apply this to my crease.

 

 

 

 

With that same brush, I’m grabbing this slightly deeper rustic shadow (6th shade in the top row) and I’m blending that over the last shade to deepen the look.

 

 

 

With a slightly smaller fluffy brush, I’m dipping into this deep maroon shadow, (7th shade in the top row) and focusing this on the outer corner of my eye, blending lightly into the crease.

 

 

 

Next, grabbing a flat shadow brush, I’m going to take this really pretty gold, metallic shadow (4th shade in the third row) and I’m packing this onto my lid, focusing mainly on the inner third of my eye.

 

 

Now with an angled brush, I’m taking this matte brown shade and applying this to my outer v, dragging upward slightly to mimic a winged eyeliner.

 

 

Once you’ve applied this with the angled brush, you’re going to want to grab a fluffy brush and blend out any harsh lines.

 

After that, I realized that the look just wasn’t standing out as much as I would’ve liked it to, so to darken the look and add a little more depth, I grabbed my Morphe X James Charles palette and with the shade spooky and with an angled brush I’m adding that to my outer v as well, and again mimicking a winged liner shape, before blending it all out with fluffy brush to give it a nice, smokey effect.

 

 

I decided to add a subtle pop of color, so I grabbed a small shadow brush and dipped into the shade playground, applying it to my waterline.

 

 

 

Grabbing that angled brush again, I’m going back into that deep maroon shade we used earlier in the Ultimate Neutrals palette and I’m blending that along my lower lash line. To add even more depth, and elongate the eye, I’m going to take that dark brown we used earlier to and apply it to my lower lash line as well, focusing it only on the outer third of the lash line.

Then just grabbing a black pencil liner I’m going to tight line my eye, before grabbing my Kat Von D Tattoo Liner and drawing a very thin line across my upper lash line.

 

 

 

For lashes, I’m using my favorite Ardell Demi Wispies and popping those on, blending them with my natural lashes with just a bit of mascara.

 

 

For lips I’m using three of my favorite product to get that perfect nude/pink look.

Starting with liner, I’m using this BH cosmetics waterproof lip liner in the color Muse. For Lipstick, I’m using my Tarte color splash lipstick in the shade Beach Babe. This is my absolute favorite nude lipstick, I’m obsessed!

To finish off the lips, I’m using another favorite of mine. The SU Cosmetics ‘Juliana’ gloss that I had the privilege of working with SU to create!

It’s such a gorgeous pink/nude gloss that compliments such a wide variety of skin tones, not to mention it applies smoothly and smells amazing! If you’re interested in buying one, you can DM me on Instagram for all the details!

And that is the finished look!

I hope you guys like this look, if you have any requests for future posts be sure to let me know in the comments or reach out to me on Instagram or Twitter I’d love to hear from you!

If you guys wanted to recreate this look, but its easier for you to follow along with a video, check out my YouTube channel, I have a video on this exact look posted on there for you guys as well!

Thank you again for reading! Be sure to follow my blog so you can be notified every time I post!

I’ll see you guys next time,

Xx, Juliana

20 Lessons I Learned In 20 Years

Guess who’s 20 today?! I’m finally an official adult. How crazy is that?

You know what else is crazy though? The responsibilities that come with being an adult.

Let me tell you, this whole “adulting” thing seemed so much more fun when I was little. Little me didn’t take into account the bills that needed to be paid I guess, but as stressful as it may be at times I am so ready to officially kiss my teen years goodbye and start this new chapter of my life.

With that being said, here are 20 lessons I learned in 20 years.

1) You are what you DO

It’s easy to talk the talk, but talk doesn’t always matter. Actions speak louder than any words you could possibly speak. If you have something you want to do, then DO IT. Don’t waste time planning it or waiting for the “perfect moment”; that perfect moment is now.

2) Losing weight isn’t everything

Stop putting all your focus on losing a certain amount of weight. Rather than putting all your focus on weight loss, focus on being healthy. Eat healthy and exercise regularly because it’s good for you and your body, not because you’re trying to punish your body.

3) Stop comparing yourself to others

It’s easy to fall into the comparison game-especially with social media-but it’s also dangerous to your mental health. As great of an outlet social media is, it’s played a big part in damaging self esteem in many people. Scrolling through countless posts of all the exciting things people post make it easy to feel the envy and start comparing your life to theirs. However, it’s important to realize that what you see on social media isn’t always real. We all post the best parts of our lives on social media and conveniently leave out our struggles. Stop comparing yourself and your daily life to someone else’s highlight reel.

4) Don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad about yourself

This past year especially I was faced with a few situations where I let people and their rude comments get me really down. It made me question everything I did, but now as I look back I’m finally able to realize that there was no point in that! The people that hurt you aren’t the ones suffering as you continue to punish yourself for whatever mean things they said about you. As much as it hurts, let it go and move on.

5) Own Your Self-Worth

You have to learn to love yourself, and realize that you are worth so much more than you may realize. Once you learn that you are good enough, and that you matter, no one else can steal that from you.

6) Life is all about progress, not perfection

We all have things we want to change in our lives, in a perfect world we can make those changes happen overnight but life doesn’t work like that. Chances are whatever you’re trying to change didn’t occur overnight, neither will the solution to it. Make small goals and continue to grow and make progress.

7) Don’t take yourself too seriously

For years now, I have struggled with the need to be perfect, and to get people to like me. I thought about it so much that I would take every little thing I said or did so seriously that it stopped me from enjoying my life. Stop overanalyzing everything you do and taking your life too seriously. No one else does, so why should you?

8) Agree to Disagree

We all like to be right, but sometimes it’s just not worth the argument. You have your opinions and others have theirs. It’s okay to disagree sometimes.

9) Life is too short to waste time hating anyone

This past year especially has been hard with this one. There were a few people in particular that made my life horrible and made me question everything, and I hated them for it. In the end though, all it did was hurt me more. I wasted almost a year on hating these people. Don’t make that mistake, if someone hurts you forget about them and find people that value you.

10) When life pushes you over, you push back harder

Life gets you down sometimes, but you have to be strong and fight through it. If you really want something, fight for it no matter who or what stands in your way.

11) If it feels wrong, don’t do it.

Growing up, you’re always trying to fit in with others, in desperate times you may even forget your own instincts and go along with whatever someone wants you to do for the sake of being friends with them. Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. It’s better to lose a friend than put yourself in a dangerous situation.

12) Investing in your skills is always beneficial to your future success

Lets be real, nothing in this life is free, thats for sure. If we have to pay for things though, shouldn’t we invest in something that can help us in the future? No matter what skills or talents you have, we all need a little training. Invest in your skills and do whatever it takes to perfect those skills to help guarantee your success.

13) If they do it often, it isn’t a mistake it’s their behavior

We all make mistakes, that’s life. However, if someone continuously lies, or makes the same mistakes and hurts you, it’s not a mistake no matter how sorry they claim to be. It’s who they are as a person, and they will more than likely do it again.

14) When in doubt, just take small steps

If you’re feeling unsure of whether or not you can achieve the goals you’ve set for yourself, don’t just give up and put your dream aside, make small goals, and continue to work towards achieving your goals one small step at a time.

15) Losing someone is tough, but you’re tougher

The loss of my great grandma is something I carry with me every single day. Sometimes I even forget she’s gone and find myself wondering when she’ll come visit next before I get that sickening feeling in the pit of my stomach as I remember she’s no longer with us. It still hurts me, every single day. The pain of losing a loved one doesn’t fade away, you just get stronger.

16) Follow your heart, but use your brain

Dating can be complicated to say the least. It’s easy to get caught in the excitement of meeting someone new, and falling in love with the idea of love. When someone new comes along that you think can make you happy by all means go for it like you’ve never gone for anything before, but don’t forget to take your head along with you. It’s important not to compromise yourself and your morals to make a guy happy. If he really cares about you, he’ll respect you and your decisions, even if they differ from his own.

17) Your thoughts are powerful, make them positive

It’s so easy to let your thoughts get the best of you. The more negative you think, the more negative you are going to feel. Keep your thoughts positive and always look on the bright side of things.

18) Its okay to adjust plans

Most things don’t turn out exactly the way we planned. Even if we end up getting the results we wanted in the end, chances are something along the way didn’t go exactly as you thought it would. Having to change plans up isn’t as bad as you may think it is in the heat of the moment. At the end of the day life has a funny way of working itself out and giving us what we ask for, it just may not be in the exact form we originally ask for.

19) Make peace with your past, before it gets in the way of your future

You can’t move forward if you keep living in the past. Whatever good or bad might have happened before needs to stay in the past, so you can start building your future.

20) Dreams require sacrifice 

Nothing in life is going to be handed to. Creative people are some of the best people in my opinion, but creative careers are not always typical or “safe”. If you have big dreams, you’re going to have to make big sacrifices to make those dreams your reality. You’re going to have to work day and night, you’re going to have to work when working is the last thing you want to do, and you will consistently have to make short-term sacrifices to get where you want to be. The people who go the extra mile are the ones on track to fulfill their dreams and be successful.

There you have it, my 20 lessons I’ve learned in 20 years. The two decades I’ve been alive have taught me a whole lot of good, and a whole lot of bad, but even through the bad it’s what’s made me who I am today.

Even through everything I have experienced, and everything I have learned, I still have so much room to grow and so many places I want to be.

I can’t wait to see what this next year has in store for me!